“He Wants Me To Deny My Son Before He Will Marry Me” – HELP!!

My name is Charity Omorogiuwa.

I was married to a man for 2 yeas and 8 months before my husband died and left me with our only son.

I suffered and raised my kid alone because I was neglected by my husband’s people. I returned to my parents when my husband’s people started making attempts to kill my son because of property. I left everything for them and took my son and ran.

My father and a few uncles returned the dowry.

My son is 14-years-old now and a man i have been in a relationship with for about 4 months now is asking my hand in marriage. I told him what happened to me and that I have a child. He said no problem, that he loves me not my past.


However the problem now is that he asked me not to let anyone in his family know that I have a child. I asked him why and he said his mother and family will not be in support if they find out that I have a grown-up son.

I have been thinking about the whole thing and I dont know what to do.

My mother-in-law to be is very nice to me and I know that she will be greatly disappointed if she finds out in the future that I hid such a thing from her. I also dont know if its wrong to deny my only son just to get married again.

I love this man and he cares for me deeply.

Please, how do I go about this?

10 Shameful Acts Guys Display After Getting Under A Lady’s Skirt

It’s very evident that the world has now taken turn in such a way that S*X is now the thing invoke among youths.

In recent time, the concept of relationship has been wrongly interpreted by guys specifically that they boast and receive appraisal from friends when they get laid.

However, to some guys, kitty-cat is the motive behind their going into relationships, that’s why they act like their world revolve around it, thereby walk-bouncing the street and bragging to their friends when a lady fails prey to them. Without wasting time,

We shall discuss the shameful things guys do after getting under the skirt of ladies, (and in some cases their supposed girlfriends)

1) They Brag When In The Midst Of Friends

Guys who act this way are nothing but scum in my personal opinion. I don’t know why some guys are so dumb that something done in secret becomes a public issue.

Few weeks ago, I was in Ado-Ekiti when a lady visited me. Gbaaaaam !!!!

I locked ourselves up for nearly four hours, and when she was about going,

I took a few minutes walk with her half way and after returning back, see as my guys begin hail and even congratulated me like say my Bet9ja ticket click.

They were asking if I actually did it, and I was like ‘whaatdaafccck’ is that? Some guys will even lie even if they never did it. This is just to boast their ego

2) They Show to Their friends Already Used Condoorrrm

Some of them are even dumb and immature that they will take their friends to their room and show to them the already used condom so that their friends will not think they are telling lies.

3) They Snap Pictures

I have no atom of respect for guys who involve in this silly act. I just can’t but shake my head for guys who are guilty of this act. Few months ago, one dumb guy in my villa was showing to his friends the selfie taken during the deed.

This is nothing but the greatest height of stupidity and immaturity at PhD level.

4) They Give The Girl’s Phone Number To Their Friend

This is another shameful thing some guys do. After the deed, some of them will give out the girl’s number to their friends telling them how professional skillful she’s on the bed. The mumu friends sef go collect the number begin chase the girl

5) They Suddenly Become Unnecessarily Authoritative

To some guys, they believe that a lady will not have an atom of respect for them until they got her laid.

However, guys with this mentality always act like ladies puppet but will suddenly become authoritative just like Ayo Fayose the moment their purpose has been fulfilled.


That is, they start springing surprises and doing things the way they like and will command obedience from the lady by force.

6) They Stop Showing Affection

It is of no doubt that the worth of some guys, is measured by the strategies used to cajole and get ladies bleeped.

This however gives some of them an assurance of self worth and handsomeness. When some of them manage to find their way there, that is when they drastically show interest and act like the ladies is the forcing herself on them yeye people

7) They Delete and Block Her


Another shameful practice some dumb and silly guys are guilty of. They used to call frequently and chat her up, but after the deed, they will stop ringing her up and even avoid her calls. The lady in question becomes worthless to them because they have got what them find joy in.

8) They Start Nagging


I swear, guys who do this are nothing but eeeedioots. Some of them can be so tolerant that that can even eat poo, but when their mission is accomplished they pick offence for everything. That is when they know that she’s not pretty, and has a poor test in fashion.

9) They Expect Her To Start Chasing Them


Guys who act like this need a knock on the head. They used to do the calling most of the time, and also used to chat her up frequently, but when they just manage to do what pleases their heart, they stop ringing her up or even pick their calls.

10) Feel free to add the Last one

Man slaps Nagging Wife For The First Time and She Goes Blind

So, A doctor on facebook shared her experience. A nagging, disrespectful wife provokes her husband into slapping her, and unfortunately it results into blindness. Domestic violence is a very dangerous trend to follow.

Read Below:

Her presenting complain was inability to see with the left eye of two days duration following a slap from her husband, I wasn’t happy but had to be calm because the young man was also in the consulting room, after examination it was obvious that she was blind in that eye. The husband wasn’t happy and I could see tears rolling down his cheeks even as he tried to hide it from me, so I decided to ask the reason.



In his own words ” Dr. I love my wife so much and we’ve been married for 3years and this is the first time i am hitting her, she has pushed me to the wall and almost through it, she doesn’t respect me, slaps me and raise her voice at the slightest provocation even in the public not minding where we are or who is around ” because you are a fool,” his wife cuts in……….

“He stood and walked out of the consulting room without saying a word. The wife followed him with showers of insults not minding she was in a hospital. How did we get here? Who do I blame? Is the man a beast for slapping his wife no matter the reason? Is this violence against women or men? No matter the circumstance it’s better to walk away than to raise your hands against a woman.”

So who is to blame? The man or the woman??

As Old as He is, My Husband Still Bedwets – Woman Publicly Shames Her Man

Juliana Okoli, a businesswoman, told a Jikoyi Customary Court on Tuesday in Abuja that she was tired of living with her husband because he ‘bed wets’.

The woman made this known when she testified in a divorce petition before the court.

According to the News Agency of Nigeria, Juliana said, “I am tired of living in the same house with him because he always ‘bed wets’.

“When he wakes up in the middle of the night and is feeling cold because of the urine on the bed, he places my cloths on the urine to protect himself from the cold.”

Juliana also said that her husband was a drunk.

According to her:

“My husband is also a drunk; whenever he drinks, he bed wets even many more times before morning and when I talk to him about it, he starts beating me.



“He sometimes chases me and our children out of the house in the middle of the night. My husband has left all the financial responsibility of the family to me; he does not even know how much the children are paying as school fees.”

She added, “Even the house we are living in, I built it with my money. Whenever he wants to drink and has no money, he would just walk into my shop beat me up, destroy my show glass, take my money and run away.”

The complainant prayed the court to grant the divorce and give her custody of her children.

However, her husband, Okoli, an electrician, denied most of the allegations, but admitted that he urinate on the bed sometimes

He said, “I don’t urinate on the bed all the time, only sometimes. I also give my children money sometimes; just yesterday, I gave them N2,000 for their school fees.”

The President of the court, Labaran Gusau, advised Okoli to settle with his wife, and adjourned report of settlement or hearing in the case till May 16.

Help Me! I Love My Boyfriend But My Boss Gives Me the Best Sekx Ever

Dear readers,

My boss gives me the most incredible orgasms and has become like a drug to me. I have a boyfriend, though, who doesn’t deserve all this. He’s 29 and I’m 27. We are both estate agents but work in different branches.

My boss came in to take over my branch. He is 38 and has a reputation as a womaniser, so my boyfriend wasn’t happy.

We clicked and flirted outrageously from day one. We had a team night out and my boss and I were the last ones there. We had a drunken kiss and couldn’t keep our hands off each other.

We stumbled outside and had s*x. Then the sexy texts started.

I didn’t give my boyfriend a thought. My boss had to give me my appraisal and the sexual chemistry was off the scale. Everyone had gone home and he pulled me into the back room. We had s*x again and I had an orgasm like never before.


I was hooked. A work pal got married and as my boyfriend was working, I went with my boss. All the guests thought we were a couple. We sneaked off into a side room and had s*x.

A girl at work got suspicious and I saw how she looked at us. My boss said he is falling for me and wants to leave his partner.

We had our annual awards dinner and my boss stayed at our house as it was close to the venue. My boyfriend was there.

My boss kept touching me and caressing my bottom but my boyfriend didn’t say anything. I cried the next day.

My boyfriend is so lovely. He doesn’t deserve this. I don’t want to hurt him or for him to look a fool at work. The s*x isn’t so great any more but we are great in every other way. It is him I want and only him.

I’ve told my boss it can’t go on but I’m not sure I can stick to it. Please, what should I do to stop this?

6 Facts That Prove That Women Are Sometimes the Main Cause of Domestic Violence

A Nigerian writer has addressed some probable causes of domestic violence in relationships which has been rampant of late.

*A man who beats a woman is a beast and do not deserve to live with humans but with fellow beasts in the jungle…No matter how provoked you may be as a man,please never raise your hand to beat your wife.*

It is no longer news that many women have lost their lives through domestic violence and the more we try to put the blames on the menfolk the more we will continue to blind our eyes to the fact that indeed, many women are the cause of the domestic violence we see today because they fail to understand some important aspects of how most men are naturally wired and below are 6 facts that point to this…

1. Negligence:

Yes this is one fact many ladies will not deny because there is no accidental character and the signs of a violent man would have been there.

It is quite amazing that many ladies get beaten up by a guy they are dating and this guy will still go ahead and become their hubby and i keep wondering what these ladies were thinking saying I do to a guy who beats you up.

Many ladies usually believe such guys will change but the honest truth is that a guy who beats you up while dating you may kill you when he becomes your hubby. RUN.

2. Sophistication:

Many people will wonder what this has to do with domestic violence but it has a whole lot to do with it. Sophistication is the bane of today’s woman and the number one reason why many ladies find it hard to get a man to settle down with.

Many ladies are too sophisticated to come to terms with the fact that they are married,they still want to live a life of a spinster while married and these set of ladies will not hesitate to tell their hubby the need for him to help out in the kitchen, the need for him to cook his food and even take care of the baby and subconsciously, these ladies gradually bruise the ego of the man who may continue to stomach these things until he gets pushed to the wall and reacts in a violent way.

No matter how highly placed or sophisticated you may be as a lady,please understand that you are a wife and a mother and you must learn how to joggle these roles without turning your hubby into a domestic servant…if he decides to help out please let it be his decision.

3. Misguided utterance:

This is a very common fact among the women folk and it is so sad that many ladies do not even realize they are guilty of this because they just might believe they are making sense not knowing that they are bruising the man’s ego and killing him bit by bit mentally and emotionally.

Misguided speech sometimes come in a very subtle way from the lady who may have no clue. For instance a lady footing the bills telling her hubby that “she can not go out all day and still come home to please him sexually” or “he can not satisfy you sexually”, or funny words like “you should be thanking GOD for having me cos there are better guys out there” bla bla bla common…. A man is an egocentric person and any word that bruises his ego could bring out the beast in him.

4. Infidelity:

This account for many cases of domestic violence leading to death. Yes men cheat as well as ladies but as a lady please be extremely careful when it comes to sexual infidelity.

Scientists have proved that the effect of hard drugs on human is the same effect a heart break gives. If you must cheat on your man or hubby please i advice you just break up with such first rather than staying in that affair and cheating because the resultant effect is always a dangerous one.

5. Use of abusive words:

This is no doubt one reason why many gentle men have turned wife beaters.There are some women who can use their tongue to set a house on fire and you need to hear how some ladies speak to their spouses.

Many ladies are very erratic in speech and it is not all men that are gentle or can walk away as men are always advised.Please ladies, learn to bridle your tongues to avoid stories that touch…be submissive, be humble. be calm in your speech and avoid getting confrontational because men hate confrontations…remember…not every man is a gentle man so try to always. maintain a status quo. Understand when to keep quiet to avoid heated arguments which usually leads to violent reactions from the man.

6. Gullibility:

Yes many ladies are very gullible when it comes to handling domestic violence.There are some guys who just make it a crazy habit beating up a lady at any slight opportunity even if the lady exhibits an angelic nature.

If a man beats you once,assume its a mistake but if he tries it again,please don’t go back to your parents or waste your time reporting him to family members..go to the police immediately to report him and let him be invited to write an undertaken never to touch you again while you also maintain a proper decorum but if his madness persists,please leave that marriage or relationship immediately whether you have a child for him or not…it is better to remain single and happy than to lose your life.

Gullible ladies who have listened to funny advices from family members to remain in a violent marriage for whatever reason are not 6 feet below….Be reasonable.

LADIES!!! 4 Ways To Prevent Your Breasts From SAGGING

There are changes you can make now to keep your breasts firm as long as possible. Every woman wants to have perfectly shaped breasts throughout her life.

Though saggy breasts usually starts happening after a woman reaches 40, it can occur earlier. Apart from age, other factors that cause sagging breasts include breastfeeding, pregnancy, menopause, rapid weight loss or gain, strenuous exercise, nutritional deficiencies and wearing a poorly fitting bra

Some diseases like breast cancer or respiratory conditions like tuberculosis can also cause breasts to sag. Also, excessive consumption of nicotine, alcohol and carbonated beverages can contribute to the problem.
A wide variety of creams and lotions are available on the market to tighten and tone up sagging breasts. However, if you prefer natural methods, to keep your breasts from sagging, then you’re on the right spot!.

•1:. Wear a Bra that suits your Breast.

If you want to wear a bra, it’s very important to make sure it fits correctly.

•2:. Always Wear a Bra when you Exercise.

Doing exercises that cause your breasts to bounce up and down, like kickboxing or running, can cause the breast ligaments to stretch. So, Its advisable to keep wearing your bra when you’re Exercising.

•3:. Stop smoking.

The skin on your chest is delicate, and it’s similar to the skin on your face. It’s easily impacted by chemicals in cigarettes that lead to the breakdown of collagen and elastin, which give skin its youthful look and texture. When your skin loses elasticity, it will start to sag. Eliminate the habit of Smoking, to keep your breasts looking younger and firm.

•4:. Protect your cleavage from the sun.

Ultraviolet rays from the sun can cause wrinkling and sagging in the breast area. The top of a person’s cleavage often gets extra sun exposure, due to the way many shirts and dresses are cut. The fragile skin there is more likely to get burned more often than other parts of the body. Use the same level of care to protect the skin on your breasts from sun damage as you would to protect the skin on your face. Also, avoid laying out in the sun

I couldn’t confess to my best friend I slept with his wife!

When Musibau came back from the US years back, the first person he got in touch with was Gboye, his friend of several years. I’d known them together even before they travelled abroad and when Musibau called that Gboye was throwing a welcome party for him, I gladly attended. Gboye’s wife, Rita, and the mother of their three  children, was the perfect hostess, she seemed to get on with Musibau, who she hadn’t met until his return.

When I asked Musibau what his plans were and where he was staying, Gboye cut in: “The silly man went to stay in the family home until his wife joins him with their children. I’ve told him it was a silly thing to do. The place is a bit dilapidated and crowded. First thing tomorrow, I’m moving him into the guest room. It would be a temporary arrangement. His wife is expected in a couple of months, and, until she arrives, he has a home with us.”

Rita beamed her approval and, when I cornered Musibau later on and asked him of the rationale behind his moving in with a married couple, he saw no problems at all. “You don’t understand,” he tried to assure me, “Gboye is not only my best mate, he’s like a blood brother. We went back a long way and we’d shared a lot of things in the past. We even lived together once with our girlfriends. No problem at all,” I shrugged. Who was I to put a spanner in any works? Musibau eventually moved in, and I’d seen him with his hosts at parties and they seemed to get on well.


Too well, if you’d asked me. When next I saw Musibau, it was at one of these fancy malls on the Island and he looked as if he was dying for a chat. “Why did you warn me against living with Gboye at my welcome party?”, he asked. Well, why did he want to know now? “I think Rita has the hots for me!” he said, not at all bragging. “My friend has turned into a home body but Rita is the swinging type.

Whenever Gboye refuses to go on an outing with her, she suggests taking me and Gboye instantly agrees. A couple of weeks ago, I was watching the TV late in the night when she joined me on the sofa. She couldn’t sleep, she said, and when the film got really steamy, she placed her hand on my thigh. ‘Do you like me at all?’ she asked. ‘Gboye is my best friend’, I reminded her. She simply got up, said good night with a full kiss on my lips!

I gulped but she’d disappeared to the bedroom. From then on, she gave me knowing looks, even when her husband was around. I became nervous. Rita is an extremely pretty woman but I have my pick of female friends. Only I dare not bring them home because of my friend—he’s a married man after all. I can’t wait for my wife to come back in a month’s time—she’ll save me from making a fool of myself. I shook my head sadly.

Trying to stop a scheming woman, I warned, was like trying to stop a charging vehicle with one hand. My warning came too late. I’d heard Musibau ‘s wife was back and I heaved a sigh of relief. At least, now, Rita would check her randy libido. “She’d already seduced me by the time my wife arrived”, Musibau told me sadly weeks later when he came visiting. “You’re the only one I can confide in.

“My Waterloo came the day Gboye had to travel to Abuja officially for a couple of weeks. As soon as he left, Rita virtually lunged at me. That night, she kissed me full on the lips again and I responded. She’d sent too much signal for me to remember any friendship that existed between Gboye and I. Soon we were at it, brushing the sheets off their bed. She felt really triumphant and for the next two weeks, she couldn’t keep her hands off me. I felt guilty, of course.


Luckily, when Gboye came back, we acted normal and he didn’t suspect a thing. Having gotten away with it, we grew more adventurous. We’d even had sex up against the sitting room door while Gboye slept. That way, if he tried to come in, we’d know about it first.

“But my wife smelt a rat as soon as she came back with our son. She hated Rita on sight and pointed to the fact that she was too familiar with me. She immediately arranged for us to move in with her parents. I’d earlier turned up my nose at living with my in-laws, but she threatened to tell Gboye if I refused to come with her. To be frank, I was enjoying the attention of two women but I love my wife too much to jeopardize my marriage.

So, we left our hosts and I had some peace of mind. When we eventually found a four-bedroom flat and had a house-warming, Rita brought bowls of food that my wife wanted to dump in the bin. I had to plead with her not to because of Musibau, the innocent one out of the nightmare. I thought I’d seen the end of my affair with Rita until the day she called and I told her my wife was with her parents because her aunt died.

“I was shocked to discover her at my door minutes after her phone call. When I let her in, puzzled, she started clawing at me, wanting sex. That was when I told her enough was enough. That I couldn’t make love to her in my own home with photos of my family staring at me from all corners of the room. She did not understand at all. If I could make love to her in her matrimonial home, why couldn’t we do the same in mine? I told her to beat it. She was so furious I was apprehensive she might do something rash.

“ A few days later, I was relaxing with a bottle of beer in front of the TV when my mobile bleeped a message: ‘Is it true you’re sleeping with Rita?’ It was from Gboye. I was still deciding on what to say when he drove up— we live a few minute’s drive from each other. He looked really ragged as he came in. ‘How could you?’, he howled, ‘my best friend?, after all I did for you?’

“He plunked himself on the nearest chair, his head in his hand and he was sobbing. I’d never seen him this unhappy before. Of course, I denied everything. Who did he think I was to sleep with a friend who’d meant so much to me? Did he realize that even my wife suspected the same thing and insisted we should all stop being so friendly.

Where did he hear of such nonsense? He then showed me a message on his mobile. I went cold as I read it:”If your wife hasn’t told you she’s sleeping with your best friend, then you ought to know: the sender had no name. A mischief maker? My wife”? Relieved that it wasn’t Rita that went confessing to her husband,’ I told him to forget the message. Had he confronted Rita? I asked him.

He said he had. That Rita was so indignant she insisted he came to me for reassurance. She even wanted to come with her husband to show how innocent she was but Gboye declined. “Phew! To be let off the hook that easily. Gboye told me he loved his wife and children and wouldn’t want his home to break. I assured him I would be the last person to do so. Didn’t I also have a family I cared so much about?

That sort of convinced him and I offered him a drink. I was hoping he would refuse. The state he was in, I didn’t want my wife to meet him in the house. But, he took up my offer. When my wife came in, she went to the kitchen and I pleaded with Gboye not to complicate things by telling her, that we must salvage what was left of the friendship we shared, and, to my relief, he agreed.

“If only I’d listened to you when you warned me I shouldn’t stay with Gboye. You know, even now when we run into each other, Rita still smirks? That girl is shameless. All I know now is that she’s a nymphomaniac. If it wasn’t me. It would be the next man. Only heavens know who she’s currently luring into her loins…”


SOURCE: VANGUARD

DO YOU KNOW THAT

1. Your shoes are the first thing people
subconsciously notice about you. Wear nice
shoes.
2. If you sit for more than 11 hours a day, there's
a 50% chance that it will make you severely
sick in 2 yrs.
3. There are at least 6 people in the world who
look exactly like you. There's a 9% chance that
you'll meet one of them in your lifetime.
4. Sleeping without a pillow reduces back pain
and keeps your spine stronger.
5. A person's height is determined by their father,
and their weight is determined by their
mother.
6. If a part of your body "falls asleep",
you can almost always "wake it up" by shaking
your head.
7. There are three things the human brain cannot
resist noticing - Food, attractive people and
danger
8. Right-handed people tend to chew food on
their right side
9. Putting dry tea bags in gym bags or smelly
shoes will absorb the unpleasant odour.
10. According to Albert Einstein, if honey bees
were to disappear from earth, humans would be
dead within 4 years.
11. There are so many kind of apples, that if you
ate a new one everyday, it would take over 20
years to try them all.
12. You can survive without eating for weeks, but
you will only live 11 days without sleeping.
13. People who laugh a lot are healthier than
those who don't.
14. Laziness and inactivity kills just as many
people as smoking.
15. A human brain has a capacity to store 5
times as much information as Wikipedia
16. Our brain uses same amount power as 10-
watt light bulb!!
17. Our body gives enough heat in 30 mins to boil
1.5 litres of water!!
18. Stomach acid (conc. HCl) is strong enough to
dissolve razor blades!!
19. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. & while
you walk, SMILE. It is the ultimate
antidepressant.

See The 80 Years Old Super Granny Who Drags SUVs With Her Teeth

80-year-old woman showcased her feat of dragging a SUV car with her teeth in China on Wednesday. The mighty granny Wang Xiaobei has already made a name for herself in an entertainment show this year, where she used her teeth of steel to drag a 1.5-ton SUV in front of the audience.

Younger people tried to pull the SUV but they couldn’t

Wang  was once an accountant, but after retirement she now is able to use her natural talent to support her family. Her teeth are so hard that she can even crack a walnut with them.

The mighty granny Wang Xiaobei

Four Types Of Women Nigerian Men Love To Marry

It is a taboo for a man to remain unmarried in Nigeria, which is why many successful men are swarmed by eager women who would do anything in order to bear Mrs. X. The truth of the matter is that Nigerian men prefer certain types of women for marriage and they prefer certain types of women just for s*x and nothing more.
Women who are at the top of the marriageable list are;

      1. Light Skinned Women

There is a popular Yoruba song that goes “omo pupa o, omo pupa la wa n fe; omo pupa o ju wo mo feran re o” it literally means “light skinned girl you are the one we want to marry, light skinned girl, please I love you.”
Most men will give their right arm to date and marry a light skinned girl. In the olden days (and now) light skinned girls attracted more suitors and their bride price were quite exorbitant. Light skinned women are always the centre of attraction and most men who date them believe that marrying (a much coveted) light skinned girl will do wonders for their egos.
Most dark skinned women have taken to using skin bleaching crèmes in order to compete with their fairer counterparts.

    2. Women With Ample Flesh

Most Nigerian men will not marry a skinny woman but they would rather sleep with her instead. Many men from the western and eastern part of Nigeria believe that a woman is more beautiful if she has ample flesh, some men have been known to date only women who have big b*tts! Most Yoruba men are of the opinion that sleeping with a skinny woman is like sleeping with a man, but sleeping with a woman that has some ample flesh will give them something soft to hold on to.

    3. Understanding Women

An intolerant woman will sure have a hard time finding a man to settle down with. No Nigerian man wants a woman who will grill him at the slightest opportunity. If a Nigerian man suspects you to be intolerant of his (sometimes) bad behaviour, he will drop you like a hot potato.
The trick most women employ is to become his legal wife first, and after the wedding (now they have a firm foot hold) they’ll draw up a list of do’s and don’ts for their husbands to abide by.

       4. Hardworking Women

Most men in Nigeria will never  consider marrying a woman who is    not gainfully employed or runs a business of her own. Gainfully employed women are at the very top of a searching bachelor’s list. The present economic situation in the country is not making things any easier for men, who are mostly the bread winners of many Nigerian families. Most men want a wife who can help support the family (financially). Most women and a few men still believe that it is the man’s responsibility to provide for his family and allowing a woman to do part of his job is nothing but an insult to his manhood

6 Reasons Bad Girls Get Married To Good Guys

Ever wondered why bad girls get good guys? Take a look at this. Bad girls as seen by most people in the society are girls who are excessively social.
They are brave, outgoing and daring. They seem to enjoy life to the fullest while partying hard. These are some of the girls whose lives revolve round being in clubs and never missing a happening event in the society. They know the most talked about people and are able to identify the rich and wealthy guys.

Below are some insights as to why the bad girls get hooked to the good guys.

Bad girls are smart
These girls are outgoing ladies who know how to mingle. They are ‘not dulling’ in the real sense of the word. They are most times beautiful ladies who are fashion as and pull attraction everywhere they step into. They understand that most of the good men out there have careers and could be wealthy. And to ease off the built up tension of work and other life issues, they pass out time in the clubs and bars. The good girls are hardly found in this kind of setting.

Force of attraction
Basic knowledge of Physics could be likened to real life situation here. Just like when objects that are electrically neutral with equal amounts of neutrons (negative charge) and protons (positive charge) connect when in close proximity, two individuals with different life styles bond too. Just as the protons could become negatively charged and the neutrons positively charged, the bad girl and the good guy would influence each other until they reach equilibrium. They become perfect for each other.

More experienced
The bad girls are often ‘long legged’. They seem to have been everywhere and have heard things that could guide them in their sojourn in life. They know things the good girls don’t and have firsthand experience of places. They have the ability to place the men who approach them and identify the exceptionally good ones among them. They know the players and understand the ‘no-time-to-waste-men’. They recognise potentials in the men once they see them and go extra miles to keep the men attracted to them.

Sexual satisfaction
Like most good girls who keep their legs closed, some bad girls keep theirs even closer. They taunt the men until they have built up a sexual tension in them. However, most of the bad girls are wild. They seem to explore always and know how to please the men. They could take men to different pleasurable heights before pushing them over the edge. They leave the guys in cloud nine at the end of the whole thing. Every guy wants a woman that would drive him wild in bed and give him an unforgettable time. So the bad girl is picked over the good ones here.

Relativity
One man’s meat is another man’s poison, they say. This explains why some men would deliberately choose a bad girl over a good girl even when they know about their escapades. Some bad girls after settling down with good men become submissive and trade their old habits for good ones. Men’s choice can’t be fully ascertained as one could never be sure of the magnetic force between them and the bad girls.

Compulsory retirement
There’s time for everything. The bad girls can’t remain bad forever. They get tired of their old ways at certain points in time. They calm down and mellow when they have seen it all. This doesn’t make them less desirable, they remain piping hot because they maintain their dress sense and good looks. In fact, they become better people with improved mannerism and are able to live responsibly after.

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Ladies : See The Dangers Of High Heels And How They Affect The Body

What Happens To The Body When You Wear High Heels

Frequently wearing high heels, can cause long-term issues, because you are continually bending your toes into an unnatural position. This can cause a range of ailments, from ingrown toenails to irreversible damage to one’s leg tendons. Additionally, cramming your toes into a narrow, pointed toe box can cause nerve damage and bunions. High heels have also been linked to overworked or injured leg muscles, osteoarthritis of the knee, plantar fasciitis and low back pain.
When you wear high heels of two inches or higher, your foot slides forward in the shoe, forcing the toes into an unnatural shape, and redistributing your weight incorrectly. The increased weight on your toes causes your body to tilt forward, so to compensate, you lean backwards which overarches the back, creating a posture that strains the knees, hips, and lower back. This change in position of the spine puts pressure on nerves in the back, that can cause sciatica, a condition where nerves become trapped, triggering pain and numbness down to the feet.

Wearing high heels can shorten the calf & back muscles, leading to pain and muscle spasms. Any time you wear shoes that restrict the natural shape of the foot, you’re at risk for pain. According to Dr. Nevins, many women who wear high heels often suffer from shortening of the Achilles tendon, as once the heel is pointed upwards, it tightens up. Stretching it again or switching to flats can be very painful and lead to plantar fasciitis. With repetitive wear, you can also develop unhealthy patterns that can persist even when you’re not wearing your heels.

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Men !!! Stop Offering Your Pe.nis To Any Girl You Meet For Mouth Action

Men are known to possess high level of se.xual urge, and can easily lose control of themselves and become irrational when s.exually aroused especially when the opposite se.x is on sight, they literally starts thinking with their joystick. Whatever you do, for your own safety stop offering your joystick to strangers ( prostitutes, one night stand, etc) for mouth-action. Stop risking your life for few minute ecstasy. Only enjoy mouth-action with your wife or girlfriend whom you have known for a longtime.

I heard a shocking story yesterday, although unverified, but I believe people should learn from this story. The victim, A final year student of one of the university in Nigeria, invited a girl he met on Facebook to come visit him. Around 1am in the night, the hostel mates were woken up by a loud scream protruding from the victims room. They rushed to find out what the problem was, but the door was locked. After several knock on the door without any responds, they decided to force the door open. When the door was forced open, they were meet with a shocking sight of the victim Unclad in pool of blood with his joystick almost detached from his groin. And in the other side few distance from the victim, is the girl Unclad and making a rhythmic movement of the arms and legs, which signifies she was having an epileptic seizure. She was giving the victim a mouth-action when the seizure started.

Seizure in Epilepsy patients is often triggered when the brain is in a state of high excitement or anxiety. The experience includes stiffen and tight clicking of the teeth for several seconds to a minute (imagine your joystick in her mouth at this moment) and then having an rhythmic movements of the arms and legs. Often the rhythmic movements slow before stopping. The return to consciousness is gradual and the person may be confused for quite some time –minutes to hours.

Have you ever consider if that stranger you are offering your joystick for a mouth-action is epileptic? Like HIV/AIDS , epilepsy is not written on the face . That handsome or beautiful face might be suffering from epilepsy.

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How To Browse Unlimitedly With Etisalat Easylife N15 For 3Hours (See How)

It has been confirmed working and very Fast, Also it works well on PC, Tablet and on every Internet enabled device. Read along.

How Can I Get The Unlimited Data For N15 For 3Hours?

1. Dial *200# to migrate to easy starter
2. Migrate again to easy life by dialing *620*1#
3. Opt in now by dialing *229*3*7#

Thats it.

Advantages Of This Plan

1. Stream unlimited for 3hours.
2. Download till infinity

You can opt out with *227*0# even though opting out isn’t so compulsory like that. If you’ve refused to opt out of the plan it automatically auto renews the plan just as the Eti PayG worked, so always opt out when necessary.

NOTE:- It is 3 hours of unlimited internet per #15 just like Etisalat PayGo.

Be at ease cause it works on PC, Android, iPhone/iPad, even BB10. You don’t need to modify anything, just open browser and Enjoy.



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MUST SEE: 15 Signs That Shows You Are Dating A Retired Prostitute (Runs Girl)

There is still the danger of being conned by your beautiful girlfriend who could be a covert prostitute or have a history of indulging in it. There are certain signs that must be kept in mind to identify such women , because such women aren’t really the type you’d be looking for, especially when it comes to seeking loyalty within a relationship. Her loyalties are basically reserved for the highest bidder; and if you fail to bid consistently, you’ll lose her in the end.
Even women who haven’t prostituted themselves can exhibit these traits below. Technically they may not be prostitutes, but they still have a prostitute’s mind set. Essentially, they prostitute themselves to their boyfriends or lovers for a period of time, as long as these men can afford them. This has led to the coinage of the term ‘retired prostitution’ to such relationships where men are essentially indirectly paying for s*x.
So here are some signs you must observe:-
1. She’s obsessed about money and excessively materialistic:
The classic prostitute mind set: she talks money, thinks money, eats money, sleeps money. This woman can easily be seduced with offers of money, and sometimes even asks for it. She never refuses offers of cash gifts. Money will open her legs and give her gina tingles faster than any other thing.
2. She makes it a routine to request for something (maybe monetary) before giving you s*x:
This type of girls are so cunning in their dealing, when they first starts a date with a potential costumer, they will give you frequent great s*x(they are very good in bed) without requesting anything in return at least for a week or less. When she has succeeded in blowing off your mind in bed ( that period you starts behaving like a small pikin) ,then gradually she reduce the fun ( to make you beg for it) to a reluctant transactional chore she performs for you only when you have done something for her first (usually something of monetary value). s*x now becomes a reward in the relationship.
3. She frequently uses the word Ashawo, slut and w***e to describe her friends or women she doesn’t like:
If you have been to a brothel and observe where prostitutes quarrel or fight, one word you always hear them call themselves is “Ashawo” . This is because what they does in their life relives in their mind. She’s simply projecting onto others what she has done and been called before by others.
4 . She openly tells you she doesn’t trust her friends around you , but still doesn’t want to leave them:
Birds of same feathers flies together. She gets upset and paranoid(ask a lot of questions) anytime you tell her you met one of her girlfriends. She is only trying to protect her money making machine from her fellow tigers (they are all in same business). To her friends she will be like “go get your own maga Dam”.
5. She boasts and prides herself of her sexual skills and how men are attracted to her and also she is openly jealous of beautiful women:
She knew that the only thing she is good at is s*x, and she will always brag about it , like how all her ex are still calling and begging her because of it. She says all this to upgrade her low self esteem and to make you feel jealous of losing her while she milks you dry. If you are observant enough you will also notice her envy against younger and more beautiful women whom she tries to demean.
6. She tends to be usually ‘busy’ within the week without explaining what ‘busy’ is:
‘Busy’ is the code word for booked or reserved, a term commonly used by prostitutes. A normal girl will rather tell you directly what she’s doing to postpone plans, instead of using the ambiguous, business-like ‘busy’ , when we all know she doesn’t work or go to school during the weekend.
7. She is known by multiple names among people. Her guy friends call her with different names, or she asks you to address her by a name which is not her real name. Also: she has multiple cell numbers.
If your “Chizzy” is called as “Rossy” by some other guy and called as Jessy by another, it means that those names are her work alias. Runs girls doesn’t want to be known by their real name to protect their identity. Multiple cell numbers are obvious: one is for personal or casual use, the other one is for official or ‘work’ (prostitution) use.
8. You happen to find stuff like wigs of several colours, length and styles in her wardrobe:
Who carries or keeps stuff like that? Only experienced professionals. Wigs are to camouflage her identity when in club house or other places she normally hangout to catch potential clients.
9. You observe she has some tiny (razor-like) markings close to her va*ina:
Professional runs girl ( just like professional armed robbers) often seek spiritual protections and prosperity in their work. This diabolical protection is mostly done by cutting a slight fresh close to the vagina, through which concoctions are insert. Some of this works like a charm in a man once you get in, you can’t leave until you are milked dry, while some maybe for protection from ritualist , occultist e.t.c
10. She has a poor or average income, but she manages to afford a comparatively affluent lifestyle without family support:
Who pays for it? Is she surviving on a financial loan?
11. She constantly reminds you of the things that she’s done for you:
Especially of the s*x she provided for you. What else can she do for you except provide her ‘special’ orifices for you
on demand? For her you should be grateful for the skilled services she provided for you, since she has done a better job than what her competitors would her given you.
12. She berates and criticizes girls who date men below them in social and economic status:
You hear them say things like ‘why on earth will a fine girl like that be dating that small ratchet boy’. Ask her what’s her business, her business is that it’s a waste of resources to see a poor guy digging that money making pot for free, when their are big men out there ready to pay for it.
13. She rates men on their income, social status and influence (disregarding character):
If she idolizes rich and ‘successful’ men of questionable character, it shows where her priorities lie. A little attention from such men is enough for her to pull down her panties for them.
14. In public even when she is with you, she still keep staring at other men:
Just as some guys (even when with their babes) still stares at other women butt (especially when it’s bigger than their babes), that’s same way a covert prostitute even when with her so called boyfriend stares at other guy she think are richer. The only different is that the she stares the potential maga straight into his eyes, and hoping the dude catches the gaze (signal)
15. She despises poverty, and more so of men who have low paying jobs:
She easily get annoyed and abusive while dealing with poor men ( taxi driver, barrow pusher, e.t.c ). Her hatred of poverty reminds her of her own desperate circumstances at one time. Even though women are hypergamous by nature, most women don’t despise poor men as long as he is working to earn something. Prostitutes however see no ‘customer’ potential in such men.
If your Girlfriend exhibits any of the above Listed attitude, My Brother run
Drop your comment.

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The ‘Unspoken’ Love

The pigeon on the roof flew away, flattering its wing and diminished to a to a pin point in the sky.
They grey sky now had turned blue and the clouds provided the perfect wall for the sun to peek.
The rays of sun now touched the ground,piercing the clouds like a needle piercing a cotton cloth.
I spread my hand out the window and felt the sunrays kissing my hand,the rain had stopped.
I smiled standing at the window admiring the beauty of nature that just had taken a shower.
My phone buzzed.
I took the phone out and unlocked it.
“1 message” was flashing on the screen.
I clicked on the flashing message icon and the text message opened.
“Hello Vishnu,
You asked me whether I could come to the cafe or not,
Yes I can.
-Manvi”
I almost jumped.. and puched the thin air a few times in excitement.
I glanced at the wall clock, it showed 9 minutes to 10.
“I have enough time” I thought and sat on the bed ,peacefully.
The cool strokes of wind greeted me,entering from the open window.
I read the message again so as to kill all the doubts and believe this to be a reality.
I smiled..again.
I scrolled to the top and started reading our coversation.
I had done it on so many occasions that now I remembered ,the whole of it.
So I started to narrate..myself the story..I closed my eyes..and laid back on the bed and felt like sinking in happiness..
“So listen this is how it all began” I told myself.
“A cute boy met a girl actually they tumbled on each other..She was in a hurry..and he wanted to apologize.
He followed her but she went in where he wasn’t allowed(laughing in my head).He too went away.
The boy was clever..he had read her name on her books that fell on the ground..he searched her and eventually..apologized.
“She did not mind”, was her reply.
He was left smiling…and even made her smile…telling how he found her.
The first conversation went long so did the other ones.
They got to know each other well..and their views matched..He preferred cricket..so did she..She loved cooking..and he ,he was an excellent Chef..Movies were his forte and she,she watched the first show of the new movie released.
Slowly and gradually debates went funny..and names were no longer orignal..trust was born,secrets were shared and happiness was gifted in one form or the other…Now they had decided to meet..She was reluctant..but he too was a magician..and specialized in getting things done..he melted her with his warm praises and flavored it with his sweet talks.”
I glanced at the wall clock again..I was late.
I got up and hurried..
***
I was in the rickshaw when my phone buzzed twice,I knew it was her,she had reached on time and I was late..but I didn’t blame myslef,but the conversation ,it was the culprit..I laughed in my head.
The rickshaw pulled by,I paid the fare letting the driver keep the change.. This showed my excitement and urge to meet her..The sun was buring..hot so I quickly made my way in the cafe,the cool air welcomed me.
I stood at the entrance looking for her and saw a hand waving for me..it was her
I slowly made my way travelling through the isle,to the corner most table where she was sitting, dressed in a beautiful red top,and blue denim jeans.Her hairs were not beaded this time..but were left open,and the brown streaks of her, just touching the shoulders. A thing was missing..her specs..which I realised later,were replaced by contact lenses.
I reached the table..and slowly dragged the chair, opposite to the one she was sitting in.
She turned away her face..showing anger as I was late.
I took out my diary and pen and scribbled a big..
“SORRY”
I tore the page and slipped it in front of her..I saw her give a faint smile.
She again turned her face to that angry one..and read the paper.
She flipped it and wrote something and and tuned her face and folder her arms.
I reached out for the paper and it said
“Sorry is accepted, but the “Sorry fee” is still due”
I smiled, I looked up and caught her staring..she immediately turned.
I sighed..and smiled.
I stood up and slowly stepped towards her..and gently planted a kiss on her cheek.
She smiled..and raised her eyebrow.
I scribbled
“Your “Sorry fee”, the best..way I could pay it..and I guess the interest on fee is still left..”
She smiled on reading the note..and gently hit me on my shoulder….and by this time..
Our coffee arrived..
I sipped the coffee..and was left thinking..How beautiful is life…for instance..
“Two ‘mute’ people enjoying in the cafe..and having their own way to communicate..a diary and a pen”
My thoughts were disturbed by her fruity smell..she returned..holding a platter of heart shaped cookie
I smiled..and thought..
‘I will break these heart-shaped cookies but ,will never break …her heart’..and took a bite.

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Author: mayank

IN JUST 1WEEK : HOW TO GROW YOUR HAIR 3-4 INCHES LONGER

So First off you will need:
*a glass or microwave proof cup
*olive oil
* a microwave
*time
Got that? Okay now This is what you do:
1. Put whatever the amount is of olive oil to cover you whole head and put it in the cup.
2. Put the cup in the Microwave for 10 seconds or less (REMEMBER: if the oil is to hot you hair may fall out so make sure its touchable and slightly warm).
3. Apply Olive Oil to roots and ends.
4. This sounds silly but keep your head upside down for 4 minutes.
5. After those 4 minutes sit up and keep the Olive Oil in for 2 hours.
6. Last but not least Wash the Oil OUT! it may take a while to get it all out but it will get out soon enough!
There you’re done! now do that for a Week and your hair will grow 3-4 inches:)
I did do it and only for 3 days because of swimming and it grew a 1 inch to a 1 inch in a half! So it does work!!You will be surprised

FOODS THAT MAKE YOUR BUTTOCKS BIGGER NATURALLY

Men everywhere now want women with big backsides, while women are doing everything possible in order to have one.
Before you join the surgery wagon, or kill yourself doing 100 squats a day, know that there are foods that you can eat in order for your backside to grow naturally, they include the following.
Big B.ooty Foods by Macro-Nutrient Sources
Protein
Protein is what typically every woman here will need to eat more of to help make your b.utt bigger. There is a common misconception that eating more protein or drinking protein shakes is only for bodybuilders. This could not be further from the truth. Every person on this planet requires protein rich foods for optimal health. In fact most people who aren’t working out or trying to grow would still benefit from increasing their protein consumption.
If you are exercising and trying to grow your bum, the amount of protein you require will increase, as protein lays down the building blocks for growth.
I recommend you try and get a protein source in every meal you eat. Around 15-30g of protein per meal. I also recommend you get yourself a good protein shake to drink after your workouts and possibly in a meal or two.
So what are some healthy sources of good protein for a bigger b.uttocks:
Eggs
Skinless Chicken Breasts
Salmon
Tuna
Tilapia
Cottage Cheese
Turkey
Protein Powder
Steak
Beans & Legumes (kidney, chick peas, etc)
Extra Extra Lean Ground Beef
Vegetable Burger
Soya Nuts
Virtually Any Fish (not fried)
Most Lean Cut Meats
Carbohydrates:
Quinoa
Brown Rice
Sweet Potatoes
Oats
Weetabix
Coos Coos
Ezekiel Bread
100% Whole Grain Bread (sparingly)
Low Sugar Breakfast Cereal (sparingly)
Fat:
Contrary to some old stereotypical bad beliefs that are still lingering on — fat does not make you fat. Excess calories and bad foods make you fat, and more prone to getting fat.
Healthy sources of good fats are essential, and can help to actually lose weight or achieve better body composition. Such healthy fat sources include:
Fish Fat/Oils (fish oil pills, salmon fat, etc)
Extra Virgin Olive Oil
Nuts (almonds, cashews, etc)
Peanut Butter (get the ones that contain only peanuts; typical peanut butter contains harmful additives like hydrogenated oils and sugar)
Almond Butter
Vegetables:
Vegetables contain tons of anti-oxidants, nutrients and other goodies that are essential for a growing bo.oty. You can typically eat as much of these as you want without fear.
Broccoli
Spinach
Tomatoes
Kale
Virtually any dark green vegetable
So remember; simply start adding, replacing, or mixing these healthy food sources into your current diet for making your bu.tt bigger. Healthy foods like these are absolutely essential for laying down the materials to help your bu.tt grow after our b.ooty building exercises.
Finally also remember that most people will require more protein, and that probably includes you.

NOBODY IS PERFECT

You are 26 and still a Virgin Much
respect..but don't judge those who are
not...
* You are 18 and Pregnant I still Respect
You.....
* You Had an Abortion Who am I to
judge!!.. You Had your own Reasons,, and I
Respect You.
* You are Single. Your choice and I respect
that.
* You are H.I.V I don't know how u got it!!
(You might be raped) So Who am I to
Judge you. I respect you.
* You are Gay/Lesbians. I Respect You For
who you are.
Respect everyone irrespective of their
situation....
Why judge them because of their past /
choices..
We were born to make mistakes life
doesn't come with instructions but we
must learn from our mistakes .
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No one is Perfect..